I know what you’re thinking. How can a sex toy be an appropriate present?
I understand your concerns so lets start by setting some basic rules. A vibrator is a very personal object and therefore a very intimate gift.
My general though on that is: everybody should love to receive a sex toy for Christmas but the reality is that I’m a bit too positive on this one.
A sex toy helps you experiencing your sexuality differently, discovering your body and pleasure, sharing funny and satisfying moments, it can basically make you happier.
On this basis, it’s the perfect gift.
But since you don’t want to create a Bridget Jones scene on Christmas Day (or maybe you do) where you auntie or granny get shocked forever, let’s say a sex toy is the gift for someone you are very close to (aka, your lover or best friend). I could add to that today sex toys are in-design and super discreet so can be easily presented as interior design objects, but I prefer to focus on the wonderful and positive outcome of giving pleasure as gift.
A sex toy is something will give you and your partner at least a full year of orgasms and pleasurable moments to share. I think this is a totally valid reason.
If you are in a relationship and want to give a vibrator that is for both of you (this is another very good reason, you get something too) you can choose a couple toy that stimulates your clit while helping him lasting longer.
I’m not saying your sex life is boring. But it would be if you never tried anything new, right? Pick something that suits his/her fancy, this is really important. If your partner has always wanted to spank you, give him/her a new whip or paddle.
You know how they say sex toys kill intimacy? Nonsense. It’s the other way around. When you give your partner a sex toy, you’re telling him/her that you’re ready to make fantasies come true. This will only bring you closer (in every sense of the word).
Our resident sex expert Victoria Roberts has this to say on the matter:
“Sex toys are not a selfish gift as they are most definitely for both of you. Most partners will be thrilled that you want to try something new with them and that you feel comfortable enough to explore with them. Sex toys can compliment your sex life in so many ways from every day pleasure to pushing your boundaries.”
If you want a special present for your best friends and you are not 100% convinced yet, here are additional good reasons, beside you are giving them something to intensify their pleasure:
- A sex toy will never say, tonight there is the match.
- A sex toy will always be there and rarely will cheat on you.
- A sex toy will touch you sweet spots.
- A sex toy lasts for hours.
- A sex toy is not cheating.
- You can easily bring it or use it almost wherever you want.
If you don’t know which one can be the right one we suggest you to check our Gifts Collection. They’ll have to guess the little shell you are giving them is a toy!
Remember sex toys help us discovering our body and pleasure, it’s a way to connect us with our intimacy even more and empower ourselves.
Take the chance to spare some time for yourself next year, a vibrator can be the perfect excuse to start doing that!